Our Fertility Journey: Episode 8

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  1. Cristal Torres

    Cristal Torres

    2 hours ago

    Anyone notice desi rolled her eyes like she was just annoyed af with the tec 8:51

  2. Leslie Soto

    Leslie Soto

    5 hours ago

    Dr Han at Cedars is the best!! She was my ob with my son and I loved her🙏🏻

  3. Lois James

    Lois James

    6 hours ago

    she was awful. i felt for you. and that was on camera, best behaviour? you should formally complain.

  4. Gabbi De Hoyos

    Gabbi De Hoyos

    6 hours ago

    Living for these they are so cute I’m so excited for you and your family prayers and god bless ✨💙

  5. Rosa Morales

    Rosa Morales

    11 hours ago

    I twisted around one time while pregnant. I was sitting down. It felt like this stretch pop thing inside when i twisted and i passed out. Thank god i was sitting down

  6. Sheyla Cabrera

    Sheyla Cabrera

    11 hours ago

    Was that Katy’s face on her shirt ??? 🥰

  7. Maria Rendon

    Maria Rendon

    13 hours ago

    I felt the lip comment being rude and I felt your vibe change.

  8. Allie Manzo

    Allie Manzo

    13 hours ago

    And to think that Desi broke up with Steven in their younger days because he was a “fuck boy” and to see them here. Blessings!!!! Congratulations

  9. Karen Zuniga

    Karen Zuniga

    14 hours ago

    Perhaps the ultrasound lady with the upper lip comment wasn't trying to be negative and it is being taken out context. From her body language I can tell she was tense and nervous perhaps it was the camera set up, I know that when I'm working and if someone watches over me I tense up, I can only imagine if in the back of my head I knew I was being recorded. What I got from her comment about the upper lip is that she was attempting to find features of the baby that favored a parent, in an attempt to make the moment memorable but her delivery was off and I can tell she was trying to turn it around and save it but it was too late. I think she tried but she was just awkward and didn't have a warm and comforting personality that many people prefer in their health care providers. It's just the way I read the energy, of course, Desi would know better because she was in the room, I'm just offering my perspective.

    • Stephanie Jsmes

      Stephanie Jsmes

      5 hours ago

      Well explained and thanks for your perspective.

  10. Arlene Prieto

    Arlene Prieto

    15 hours ago

    Watch Charlie pee on another cushion 😂

  11. Cinthia Serna

    Cinthia Serna

    16 hours ago

    Honestly all ultrasound techs seem to be in a rush. I have 3 kids. If you go to a private non medical office they will give you the treatment i think you’re expecting. The teddy bears and all that.

  12. crystallite33


    16 hours ago

    I loved my 4D ultrasound. They had soft music playing, they asked me to drink some orange juice before my appointment so the baby would be active. It was so memorable. We also got the dvd with the music. It was a real tearjerker.

  13. alida flus

    alida flus

    17 hours ago

    I love how the doctor came in and was like "...no his lip is pretty normal" lmao

  14. T C

    T C

    17 hours ago

    Cute baby raisin 🥺🥺 CANT WAIT FOR BABY PERKINS TO BE BORN!!! I cry at every episode bc I’m so happy for desi and Steven 😭💙💙💙💙

  15. Michelle Romero

    Michelle Romero

    18 hours ago

    jajaja i love how Desi's rocking that Katy shirt

    • alida flus

      alida flus

      17 hours ago

      Oh child no one tells Desi she's lazy. Awkward.

  16. Jacky M

    Jacky M

    19 hours ago

    this video just made me want to be an ultrasound tech to be sweet and nurturing. we need more people like that i hate when people have bad experiences like this. These are special moments in life and they should be memorable in a good way. Love you Des❤️

  17. Flaui


    19 hours ago

    I think you're overreacting with the 3D picture. Maybe this appointment was too hyped up and that's why you were disappointed.

  18. Candice Smith

    Candice Smith

    20 hours ago

    The clothes are adorable BUT you are going to hate yourself For buying onesies with all those buttons 😩😓😓 zippers are your best friend lol

  19. Svenja Braun

    Svenja Braun

    20 hours ago

    Can anybody tell me where Desi got those cute baby outfits from?

  20. OneSlyFamily


    21 hour ago

    We are vlogging the same journey but on a poor persons budget. 😂 check us out.

  21. Cute Akuma

    Cute Akuma

    22 hours ago

    « Lazyyyy?! Oh I’m sorry I’m only building your child here » I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  22. Miss Yesenia

    Miss Yesenia

    22 hours ago

    I love these videos!!!!! Makes me sooooo happy. Family Goals for reals!

  23. Sofia Tarin

    Sofia Tarin

    22 hours ago

    They push the belly to get the baby to move, it’s totally normal!

  24. Cowlishaw Productions

    Cowlishaw Productions

    Day ago

    All babies are born with an overbite so they can latch on when they breast feed... that sonographer was an idiot

  25. Felisia Fernandez

    Felisia Fernandez

    Day ago

    I love seeing your mom in these videos!! She’s such a sweetheart. I’m so happy for y’all I could die 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  26. Yesseth Stitz

    Yesseth Stitz

    Day ago

    Left Tatis video 4 min in to come watch some real beautiful positivity 😌👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  27. Marielle Santana

    Marielle Santana

    Day ago

    The feeling of “is this really real?” never goes away even when the baby is born you’re in shock of what you have just accomplished ! 🥰 Your hubby sounds a lot like mine couldn’t get enough of me while I was pregnant , found me even more attractive with a big ol belly 😂🤰

  28. Holly Johnson

    Holly Johnson

    Day ago

    Pregnancy looks so good on you!! XOXO

  29. Angelica Schuyler

    Angelica Schuyler

    Day ago

    Idk if anyone has said this yet but, the black screen and white words with the dates reminds me of Paranormal Activity 🤣 love it

  30. Dayzzz C

    Dayzzz C

    Day ago

    Didn’t Steven cheat on Desi?

  31. Jill Armstrong

    Jill Armstrong

    Day ago

    Oh child no one tells Desi she's lazy. Awkward.

  32. Octavious Sonnier

    Octavious Sonnier

    Day ago

    Awww the clothes are sooo cute

  33. Jackelin Moreira

    Jackelin Moreira

    Day ago

    your pregnancy is the only thing that is keeping us sane this year 💕, we are so exited to meet baby Perkins😍😘💕

  34. Taylor Shae

    Taylor Shae

    Day ago

    I had a bad experience with my tech too, after she found out I already knew the sex her whole demeanor changed . She was like, “ya it is a boy, but he’s not very well endowed.” I literally had no words, I held it together until I walked out crying.

  35. Gloria Calderas

    Gloria Calderas

    Day ago

    desi what bra are you wearing?? love you!!

  36. K 2020

    K 2020

    Day ago

    Ummmm I thought the top lip looked big too like maybe he was sucking on his bottom lip but I don’t think that’s as offensive as they tried to make it out to be that poor tech she’s gonna feel like crap if she sees this. Aren’t people allowed to be human and say the wrong thing sometimes?

  37. R. Correa

    R. Correa

    Day ago

    Desi, pumpkins grow a lot! careful or they will end up invading your entire garden! ;)

  38. Alvz422


    Day ago

    DESI! I’m sorry that ultrasound tech was rude and annoying. You should go to 3D 4D HDLive Ultrasound - Cherished Memories in Downey it was a nice experience even tho it was not my regular ultrasound appt, the experience was nice and it isn’t expensive at all. They have a big bed for you and your partner to lay on as the do your ultrasound, oh and couches for your family. Idk if with this whole covid thing going on if it’s open but I really don’t recommend it they girls were really nice.

  39. Mallory Foreman

    Mallory Foreman

    Day ago

    I had my anatomy scan the same day as you and I felt that same way! I don't know if it's because of the Covid situation they want you in and out, but I was so disappointed by how fast it went too. It was just rushed and not what I had anticipated it to be either!

  40. Emily Fisher

    Emily Fisher

    Day ago

    So what I don’t understand is why they don’t let Steven in... like they are married so obviously if one of them had COVID 19 then the other one would have it too. Idk I think it is the stupidest thing ever especially if you are taking the necessary precautions to prevent further spreading. Guess common sense ain’t so common these days. I guess if you live in places like Commiefornia you are bound to respect their stupid laws and rules.

  41. CaligrlathRt


    Day ago


  42. dearestnaly


    Day ago

    Clicked Pause.. Oh mama.. the nurses tone is killing me I am over here asking her to leave for you. 🙅🏻‍♀️ he is perfect. Okay play.

  43. Catherine Osborne

    Catherine Osborne

    Day ago

    The baby boy will come out looking exactly like Steven. Exactly! Then he will start to change and resemble both of you! ❤️❤️

  44. skayh08


    Day ago

    All those comments from the tech were completely normal, not rude at all.

  45. Leticia Laguna

    Leticia Laguna

    Day ago

    I love how supportive your mom is during your pregnancy 💕

  46. summer h

    summer h

    Day ago

    I know how you guys felt desi I got told my baby is 'not photogenic' at my first scan and it really upset me.

  47. Allison Smith

    Allison Smith

    Day ago

    Okay i just melt every time i watch you guys on this journey🥺 so sweet and beautiful. Congrats for your beautiful family. I pray for a safe and healthy rest of your pregnancy and delivery❤️

  48. serenity/I LOVE K-POP

    serenity/I LOVE K-POP

    Day ago

    Desi really got me in the beginning. I was like “How in the world is that ring floating in mid air?” I thought Desi was secretly apart of the AVENGERS and just didn’t tell us. Lol 😂

  49. jujia7


    Day ago

    aww you're not una cicciona Desiiiii! you guys are so happy and lovey-dovey I can't evennn💚💚💚 (also,that tech needs some manners,I get people are stressed out because of the virus but WOAH try to be a lil'bit nicer )

  50. Stacy Zendejas

    Stacy Zendejas

    Day ago

    Ur mom is everything Desi. Giving Steven the cigars was very thoughtful of her. I love how she said “& congratulations to me too” lol

  51. Elizabeth Del Real

    Elizabeth Del Real

    Day ago

    Mi hizo llorar de tanta alegría! Felicidades! Su historia me da esperanza de algún día poder ser mamá💕 #ttc2009 💕mucho amor para los tres💕

  52. Kiran Kaur

    Kiran Kaur

    Day ago


  53. Diana Hurtienne

    Diana Hurtienne

    Day ago


  54. Andrea Tapp

    Andrea Tapp

    Day ago

    Ew that tech was a bitch

  55. Gilyn V

    Gilyn V

    Day ago

    Is normal for there lips to look like that don’t worry I panic too but is normal! He is a beautiful healthy boy desi and that’s all that matters 🙏🏽💙

  56. Rachel Tamashiro

    Rachel Tamashiro

    Day ago

    I’m really surprised the ultrasound tech made a comment like that. Some offices fire their techs for saying things like that. I’m sorry you didn’t have the experience you were looking for. I wish you all the loving fluff in your second appointment! :) Your baby is so beautiful, you’re beautiful, so excited for you!!! 💕💕💕

  57. mrs Ramirez

    mrs Ramirez

    Day ago

    Not everybody has to put you on a pedestal !!! 😳🧐🤣🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

  58. KristinaLouise Beauty

    KristinaLouise Beauty

    Day ago

    A mommy tip: avoid buttons for their clothes at all costs. Zippers are your friend! Imagine being sleep deprived and just wanting to go back to bed, and you have to sit there and button all those buttons. I also highly recommend halo sleep sacks. My daughter loved them. I brought it to the hospital when she was born and she was so much happier and cozy with it on.

  59. Aliengal


    Day ago

    I love Desi’s mom! She’s so sweet!

  60. itsaileenn


    Day ago

    The tech made me so mad 😠

  61. SaritaE84


    Day ago

    You really only get that mushy type of appointment outside of an actual medical appointment/medical building. The anatomy scan is rushed and you are behind and ahead of so many other patients they are only there to take the measurements and get the needed pictures for the doctor. I highly recommend a place that does 3D imaging and it is money well spend when you leave with a dvd of all images and movement and a stuffy with the heartbeat.

  62. Tanya Torres

    Tanya Torres

    Day ago

    Loveeeee watching your videos. Just seeing you and Steven interacting you can literally feel the love and happiness radiate out and it’s so beautiful 😭❤️

  63. Miss. Jenn

    Miss. Jenn

    Day ago

    So beautiful! Seriously every episode brings me to tears! 😭 so happy for you! 🥰

  64. Patricia Ronquillo

    Patricia Ronquillo

    Day ago

    I ❤️ you both! Especially that you’re sharing this journey of a very special time in your life. I can’t wait each time for the next video. I seriously watch each time with a great big smile. I’m sure others can say the same. Pure love and positive vibes. Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to the next video 😊

  65. ELLY


    Day ago

    Forever will be praying for you guys health and happiness❤️🙏🏽

  66. Jenna Saarinen

    Jenna Saarinen

    Day ago

    Love you guys so much!! God bless you on this very special journey ♥️

  67. andrea lacayo

    andrea lacayo

    Day ago

    I don’t see how the tech was offensive lmao. Yeah she talked about the upper lift for a while but it was kind of playful?

  68. Jess_TB


    Day ago

    I had a bad ultrasound experience too. I had a male tech and he was extremely rough on me to the point I got bruised the next day. My baby wasn’t moving and he said “your baby is not moving, have you been to the doctor yet” my nerves went through the roof and the rest of the pregnancy I feared a still birth. Gracias a dios that didn’t happened and my baby girl is about to a year old in August.

  69. Giselle Huerta

    Giselle Huerta

    Day ago

    Yeah I didn’t like that tech’s vibe either 😒 but the baby looks so adorable 😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰

  70. April


    Day ago

    The way Steven stares at Desi when she’s talking about the ultrasound experience 💕💕💕

  71. Diana Medina

    Diana Medina

    Day ago

    Omg that lady!! Aww...sorry Desi, hopefully next appointment is a better experience :)

  72. mara.iara


    Day ago

    A baby being shy _and_ sucking his bottom lip... Just transfer your bank account to his name and apply for a job as his accountant; it'll be easier than continually opening your purse every time he does something cute.

  73. noreen geli

    noreen geli

    Day ago

    Yes!!! I felt the vibe change too and I knew Steve asked Desi how she was doing because this was awkward af. Uhg 🤦‍♀️

  74. Holly Ortega

    Holly Ortega

    Day ago

    It’s never as special as those places that give you the teddy bears lol The doctors are just checking safety. Definitely go somewhere else , that’s what I did and got like a 30 min view of our baby and it was way more exciting.

  75. Joanne Tien

    Joanne Tien

    Day ago

    they can't spend an hour doing the anatomy ultrasound with you...there are other appointments scheduled you know..

    • DeeAnna Vazquez

      DeeAnna Vazquez

      4 hours ago

      Joanne Tien and not only that, this whole COVID is still going on. I wouldn’t want to spend a lot of time around random people all day and not keeping my distance wondering if they have the virus or not. I get it, she’s a first time mom and everything, but at this point it just seems like she wants everyone to cater to her and expect strangers to know her full back story about her infertility.

  76. heartstrings unwind

    heartstrings unwind

    Day ago

    Girl, I felt it in my soul when you said your baby was the only thing making 2020 good. I'm 22weeks & 3days pregnant and I totally felt you on that. I just lost my father also and I sadly keep thinking what else could possibly would happen this year. Also, I would have been upset with the ultrasound tech, too! She wasn't thinking, wowww. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ We so are hormonal during this time, saying anything remotely negative needs to be non-existent. Being pregnant during a pandemic is the craziest situation! the anatomy scan over FaceTime is bizarre, too. I wish you had a better experience with yours, but I'm glad to hear you're scheduling another. I love you guys Congratulations again! Desi... Stay strong in 2020, you got this.

  77. epiphanyloa


    Day ago

    The technician's comments and professionalism or lack thereof...I dunno about her.

  78. The Lifestyleist

    The Lifestyleist

    Day ago

    Honestly girl I think it’s just a normal thing for the ultrasound technicians to be like that at the anatomy scan because my experience was VERY similar and so many other women I know as well. It’s unfortunate because we look forward to that appointment so much and the negative remarks and energy is really a downer, but I’m glad you had a doctor come in after to kind of lift the mood and reassure you ❤️

  79. Laura Mora

    Laura Mora

    Day ago

    Some people just really shouldn’t be techs. I’m went for an transvaginal ultrasound on time and the tech made me feel so uncomfortable. Discussing my symptoms and telling me what it could be like she was the doctor. I was so confused and worried. She also wasn’t so gentle. 🥴

  80. Christa011


    Day ago

    Pro tip from a mom of 2: those clothes are adorbs, but girl, zipper jammies! Those snaps are the death of you at 2 am diaper changes when he’s screaming for food 😂 This is so exciting!!!! ❤️❤️❤️